The Montana Standard from Butte, Montana • 21

The Montana Standard, Butte, Sunday, July 2, 1995 C5 Adoptees frustrated! with closed bitten ireooirdl A light went on. I said, 'Oh, that sounds The Hanleys are a distinguished family. Jerry's father was a lawyer. His grandfather was Tom Dewey's lieutenant governor. But Jerry wasn't born into the Hanley clan.

They got him from an adoption agency in Chicago 60 years go. It's one of the stories he recalls from his childhood, that drive back from Chicago to upstate New York, stopping at farmhouses for food and diaper changes, a new baby in the car. "I always knew it," Jerry Hanley was saying. "They told me right from the beginning." He also knew the name of the By Dan Lynch Albany Tlma Union woman who'd given him up. It was right there on his birth certificate, the one the adoption agency had given his father six decades ago.

But Jerry Hanley, graduate of Yale and beneficiary of a marvelous upbringing, knew enough about the past. He never felt the need to dig for his roots. Until he began watching adoptees talk to one another on-line. He told me, "I started reading all these stories about all these younger people in their 30s, generally, or their 20s. They're really disturbed by the fact that they don't know their genetic, biological origins in a way that never really disturbed me.

But when I saw that, I could empathize with them." When Jerry Hanley was adopted, records were open. But in New York, in 1938, the law changed. Lore has it that Gov. Herbert Lehman had an adopted child and wanted privacy. Other states followed.

Today only two states, Kansas and Alaska, have open adoption records. For many of the 500,000 adoptees in New York, the current law is a profound source of heartbreak and frustration. They want to know where they came from. A bill that would permit adoptees older than 21 access to their birth certificates is languishing in two legislative committees. Helene Weinstein, chairwoman of the Assembly Judiciary Committee, has been non-committal about it.

Stephen Saland, who controls the relevant Senate committee, has reservations about it. Saland is worried about the pledge of confidentiality made to birth mothers. Maybe something can be done for future adoptees, Saland says, but for everybody else, a promise is a promise. This position maddens Jerry Hanley and others who believe deeply that people should have a right to know who they are which doesn't strike me as an unreasonable request. Armed with his birth certificate, Jerry Hanley has begun the search for the South Bend, salesgirl who gave him life six decades ago.

His birth mother, if she's alive, would be 81. Jerry Hanley knows that he would come as quite a jolt to me, I've read a lot of stories about a lot of searches and a lot of reunions," he said the other day. "The chances are extremely good that, shocked and taken aback though she might be, there's an equally good chance that for the last 60 years, she's never forgotten me. "My guess is that she would be greatly relieved to find out who I am." ALBANY, N.Y. Here was Jerry Hanley dapper, bespectacled, bow-tied and courtly and he was telling me he was adopted.

"I started doing some genealogical research on the Hanleys," said Hanley who retired four years ago as a University at Albany theater professor. "CompuServe has a big genealogical reference file, and I bumped into some adoptees talking to one another. I realized that these people were seawhing for their biological parents. MORGUE DUST YOUR HOROSCOPE War claims young Butte man Be imaginative, Capricorns The following excernts were Tracy Thornton Jeane Dixon jt' I A good day to contact friends for assistance with a special project. Influential people could ask questions.

Have the facts at your fingertips. Pursue romance once the sun goes down. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): You may have to reveal a few secrets in order to win someone's cooperation.

Go ahead and lay your cards on the table. A romantic ges to follow iffthe footsteps of the similar organizations in Germany, France and New Jersey. They are "revolutionary," they admit, but only in their style of seeking after health. The members are quoted as saying that theirs is the only sunshine society in Montana. They have a long waiting list, they state and add that if they accepted all applications for membership the "rifle range wouldn't be big enough to accomodate the." They profess to derive much satisfaction from their sun baths but the sale of skin lotion is said to be looking up since the club was organized.

Oct. 9, 1909 Salvation Army captain dies in hospital Matilda Noble, 36 years old, captain in the Salvation Army and one of the most beloved and conscientious religious workers ever in Montana, died shortly before noon yesterday morning, following an operation. Captain Noble had been a sufferer for some time, and Drs. Kar-' stead and Matthews performed the operation Monday. At first it was believed the operation would be a success, but complications followed and Miss Noble passed away peacefully yesterday morning at the Butte General hospital, all members of her family in Butte being present at the bedside.

taken from past issues of the Anaconda Standard and The Montana Standard, and were compiled by Tracy Thornton, Standard, editorial assistant. Feb. 7, 1945 Infantryman killed in action in France Pfc. William Boyle, 23-year-old Butte infantryman; was killed in action in France on Jan. 19 while serving with the Fourth Army, according to a War Department telegram received by his parents, Mr.

and Mrs. James Boyle, 724 Maryland. He had been overseas only one month. Born in Butte, Oct. 12, 1921, Pfc.

Boyle attended and was graduated from St. Joseph parochial grade school and the Butte High School, the latter with the class of 1941. Prior to entering the service he was employed as a carpenter. The last letter received by his parents from their son was last Saturday. It was written Jan.

15. March 7, 1953 Diane Thomas' collar bone broken Diane Thomas, 6-year-old daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Glen Thomas of 2600 Elizabeth Warren, who suffered a broken collar bone and HAPPY BIRTHDAYI IN THE NEXT YEAR OF YOUR LIFE: Make a special effort to expand your social horizons. Meeting new friends means gaining fresh insights and experiences.

September is the best time to visit kinfolk. By remaining in a background position at work, you can be the power behind the throne. A bumper crop of compliments will be yours as 1996 gets underway. The desire to build something perhaps your own home requires much reflection. Weigh your options carefully after consulting your romantic partner.

CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DATE: civil rights advocate Justice Thurgood Marshall, actress Cheryl Ladd, tennis player Rene Lacoste. ARIES (March 21-April 19): Excellent developments affecting your property or financial resources mean greater security. Take things as they come. A change of scene is recommended for someone who feels down in the dumps. TAURUS (April 20-May 20): You are happiest when surrounded by beauty.

Get rid of an item that no longer reflects your taste. Be a good neighbor if you receive a call for advice or assistance. Downplay the inconvenience. GEMINI (May 21-June 20): The less outsiders know about your economic status, the less they are likely to impose on your generosity. Take the time to plan a very special outing for your loved ones.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Someone's disclosure of a secret other injuries when struck by a car Thursdayr was released from St. James Hospital Friday. July 12, 1931 Nudist colony gets its start in Butte Butte has a new secret revolutionary society which meets daily at noon "and in the open," just south of the railway tracks behind the hills near Rocker. It is composed of a hotel man, a physician, a jeweler, a signboard advertising manager, a ready-to-wear merchant and several others whose business has not yet been learned. There are as yet no women members.

The sign of recognition has been discovered an opening of-the shirt at the breast and the significant query: "Do you belong to the club?" The initiated response by a. similar exposure of the bosom, couple with the words, "I do." Members of the club declare that their organization is merely a nude society that is taking advantage of the season and the vacation period agenda could hurt Personal matters will require careful handling. An investment opportunity could disappear if it receives too much publicity. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Although you are happy to stay close to home today, you may not feel like doing chores.

Read a good book or pursue a favorite hobby. The night is made for romance! VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): You are in the driver's seat now and can dictate the terms of a mutually-beneficial agreement Be fair. The seed for a romantic connection could be planted today.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Although your mind wanders at times, conversations with family members should go well. The emphasis is on communications and travel. When planning a vacation, consult everyone involved.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Your intellect is exceeded only by your charm Use your powers of persua-, sion to get what you want. Someone who scoffs at your success is probably jealous. Continue to do what you feel is right.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): ture inspires you to do something similar. Be imaginative. AQUARIUS (Jan.

20-Feb. 18): Do not lose your poise no matter how aggravating certain people become. Those who are stubborn will not be moved. Think first and act afterward. A newcomer to your social circle offers advice.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Accept only those invitations that really interest you. This is not a good time to mix business with friendship. A young person may need help with a homework assignment. TODAY'S CHILDREN take great comfort in routine and tradition.

They like to do things at the same time every day and may turn cranky if their schedule is disrupted. Although moody at times, these Cancerians rarely stay down for long. Never stretch the truth when dealing with these honest types. Once their trust js betrayed, they find it hard to forgive and forget. A career in the theater or art world should bring great satisfaction.

1995, Universal Press DEAR ABBY SUNDAY CROSSWORD Al attached to cabin family 1 39 "and Stripes" 41 Wicked indulgences 42 Jack, David or Robert 45 Shot off 47 Away from the center Abigail Van Duren 49 50 51 52 Roof worker See 5 Across Presbyter Lasso Edited by Joyce Nichols Lewis 68 Who sent the 96 Ancient Greek 11 CagerBird redcoats to region 12 An award Concord? 97 John Paul 13 Custom 71 Yoko Jones' ship 14 Marriage 72 Surface the 99 Highland necessity street dance 15 Palestine 73 Caesar's 1 00 Egg on personage wings 101 City of Light 16 Where Molly 74 Memos of 1 02 Iris layer Pitcher debt 103 Rib became 75 Lover Don 1 04 Courageous a legend 76 Rene's roll act 17 Native call response 105 Ivories American 77 Francis 106 Com floss 18 Tear apart Marion's 24 River at nickname DOWN Hyderabad 81 "In God We 1 -Caesar's 25 Ito or Alworth Trust," e.g. comic 29 Composer 82 Most grimy complement Carmichae! 84 Exposed 2 Mighty mite 31 Skillful 85 Entertainer 3 El statesman Eddie 4 In fact 32 Quinn's 86 "Monster" 5 Coffee port of Greek lizards Brazil 33 Roman robe 87 By and by 6 French 34 Tipples too 88 Lansbury's notions much B'way hit, 7 The "Swedish 35 Where 1966 Nightingale" Cornwallis 89 Armor 8 Buchwald or surrendered 91 Red flare Carney 36 Pedestal part 92 Minor 9 Chekhov play, 37 Blusher league with "The" 38 Olympian v. types 10 Sweet talk Johnson 53 aves: nonpareils 55 See eye to eye 57 Big bells 59 Muscle 69 Certain prisoner 70 Well-behaved. 73 Leading 75 Flavius Jewish historian 77 Cultivation of the soil 78 Embarrassed 79 San Calif. 80 Supplant, in a way 61 Ape 83 Connections 85 Go hungry 87 Dueler's move 88 Deserve 89 Use a sieve 90 Golfer's target 91 Warning from Watson 92 Desiccated 93 Sitarist Shankar 94 Pitcher Hershiser 95 Coyote St.

97 Future flower 98 Fannie "INDEPENDENCE DAY QUIZ" By Frances Hansen ACROSS 1 Site of the first miracle 5 With 50 Down, American lawyer-diplomat 10 Huffed and puffed 14 A Day off 19 Of the ear 20 C'est- that is to say 21 Tibetan monk 22 Fuming 23 Washington's troops 26 a Hot Tin Roof 27 to: totaled 28 TV's Shandling 29 Hoisted 30 Raps 31 Like a cloudless day 32 Of a particular area 33 Stencil marker 60 arts Ravorful Early computers Belle's 61 62 63 65 beloved Related on the mother's side Generous first one.) Erik and I are very happy together, and he does spend time with me. But I alsd understand that he needs time alone as much as I do, so we give each other that space when it's needed. I married my best friend, so if he spends a little too much time with "Belle" so what? I wouldn't trade him for the world. Computer Widow in Virginia DEAR WIDOW: Obviously, you are sufficiently secure in your marriage to be comfortable with your husband's pursuing his own interests. You are to be commended for your realistic and healthy attitude.

DEAR ABBY: We received a lovely engraved wedding invitation recently. At the bottom of the reply card was printed: "Please make gifts in the form of contributions toward the purchase of a family car." Can you believe it! Amazed DEAR AMAZED: Yes, I can believe it. I once received a letter about a wedding invitation that advised the guests that the couple was registered at a travel agency, and they could use cash toward a honeymoon in Hawaii. Another invitation specified a minimum of $50 for the gift, while still another instructed guests to deposit money in the couple's savings account, listing the bank and account number! FOR EVERYTHING YOU need to know about wedding planning, order "How to Have a Lovely Wedding." Send a business-sized, self-addressed envelope, plus check or money order for $3.95 ($4.50 in Canada) to: Dear Abby, Wedding Booklet, P.O. Box 447, Mount Morris, 111.

61054-0447. (Postage is included.) 1995, Universal Press DEAR ABBY: Some time ago, my husband, "Al," took a notion to buy property in a nearby state. He has a tendency to be depressed, and I have a tendency to say yes to make him happy. So, seven years and $70,000 borrowed dollars later, we own a family cabin in West Virginia. Al is now semi-retired, and it's the center of his world.

My problem: He expects me to accompany him and share his enthusiasm for the place, but I'm no more interested in it than I am in the man in the moon. I'm quite happy staying home and pursuing my own interests, which are many. (None of them involves "fooling When I'm at the cabin, I feel isolated, trapped and homesick. Al is so attached to the place that he takes my rejection of it personally. (Or else, when I tell him how I feel, he just doesn't hear me.) I dread the approaching summer.

Surely I'm not the only wife in a long marriage (35 years) whose husband finds a new pastime golf, a boat, bridge and insists that his wife go along with it. How have other women dealt with this problem? What do you suggest I do? Boxed In, In Maryland DEAR BOXED IN: Sit down with your husband and work out a compromise. You are entitled to spend some of the summer doing what you enjoy. But don't put Al in the position of doing everything alone or that will be the beginning of the end. Even though you're not joined at the hip, you are married, and marriage requires COMPROMISE.

Perhaps you could pursue some of your interests at the cabin. For instance, catch up on books and magazines, start (or complete) a craft project, or knock off a chore you've been putting off for months, such as putting loose pictures in an 66 one 68 Sharon of "Cagney Lacey" album or answering letters from friends or relatives. If you think of the cabin as presenting opportunities, then the "time you spend there may seem more pleasant. DEAR ABBY: The letter signed "Computer Widow" grabbed my attention because too, am a computer widow. My husband, "Erik," is at work now, so I'm writing this on his computer.

But when he's home, his computer is his first love. I refer to it as "Belle Packard the other woman." Erik spends more money on her than he spends on me, and she gets a lot more attention than I do. But I'm not complaining. At least I know where he is and what he's doing. When he's gazing fondly into the monitor of his sweet Belle, he's not out chasing women and bringing home God-knows-what, or sitting in a bar somewhere.

The old saying, "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em" is my motto, so I reminded Erik that I am "computer-challenged," and asked him to teach me something about his first love. (He was thrilled.) I've learned a lot, and I'm no longer intimidated by "Belle." I suspect that "Computer Widow" has some deeper problems, but I also think a little less nagging would improve the situation. The more you harp, the more they shut you out. (This is my second marriage, and I learned a lot from my 1 2 I3 I4 I I5 I6" Is" 3 iio Ti ITi" F73 I lu Ts lie I17 ha 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 ,26 27 28 30 p7 31 32 I 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 151 1 52 S3 54 55 56 57 58 $9 I I 61 62 64 el! 67 68 68 170 1 tC Ti 73 1 74 75 76 I 77 78 79" 80 81 82 83 84 85 867 87 88 I jM 92 195' 96 97 98 99 TOO 101 102 761 T64 Tos T06 36 Fellini's "La Vita" 37 Chickens headed for the oven 40 Rails and punches 41 Main camp for 23 Across 43 Feed bag bit 44 Grand Ole 45 Rover's friend? 46 July birthstone 47 Easy as falling log 48 Netherlands river 49 Famous fort of New York 53 English children's author Godden 54 Fred or Adele 56 Beethoven's Fur 57 U. ofRorida nickname 58 Makes eyes at 59 Camp David Accords figure 60 Oklahoma governor, 1975-79 61 Lost one's cool 63 IQ test name 64 Equipped with military supplies 67 Daisy Mae's shy swain JOLLEY BRIDGE A similar hand to last week's hand Dealer: South Vulnerable: Both Mario I JoIIcy 'yp- NORTH QJ10 94 1087 KJ643 WEST 4 65 AQ7 AK543 1092 Note that this is almost the same hand as the hand that was in last week's paper, except South had three diamonds to the jack and the doubleton KJ of hearts.

East has six small hearts and just two diamonds queen and the two. Again, partner leads the king of diamonds, but this time you play the two. If you play the queen, partner will think you have the jack and probably under-lead his ace. Partner now continues with the ace of diamonds and when partner how plays her queen, West realizes partner owned a doubleton and will now give his partner a ruff. Partner now shifts to the 10 of hearts and west will win the with the ace and queen, setting the contract two tricks.

There is only one situation in EAST 98 1084532 Q2 875 SOUTH AK7432 KJ J96 AQ East South West 1 dble pass 4 pass pass pass pass 7295 1995 Los Angeles Tunes Syndicate Solution on Page C3 which you may signal with the queen of queen small: if the jack is in dummy. For example, if partner leads the king and dummy has Jack, play the queen from Qx if you want partner to continue with the ace and then give you a ruff. JOLLEY BRIDGE Tuesdiy, Jum 20 NS 1, Ann McCarthy and Rita Wilson. 2, Marian Knuckey and Julia Keenan. 3, Lil Cllne and Marie Jolley.

4, John and Laura Clark. EW Bob Keenan and Bill Ralph. 2. Bea Cornel man and Lit Spleqle. 3, Lin Goldstein and Jim Heier.

4, Janet Ralph and Larry Keller. Marie Jolley, director North 2 pass Want Ads Got Fast Results Opening lead: King of diamonds.